With age came many changes. Children moving away, then, retirement with no work sounded promising, but I still miss the fellowship of coworkers. As my wife and I had been busy with work and activities on our own, we had somehow without realizing it drifted our separate ways even though we lived in the same house! Hugs and intimacy had became more and more infrequent, until we one day woke up to the realization that it was only us two that truly mattered. It was then we decided to do something about it. We set a specific time each day to be together. We exchanged the king size bed for a much smaller size, forcing us to sleep closer. We also decided to sleep nude. Feeling her skin next to mine felt wonderful, but all this did not help my ED. – It was then I considered herbs and even meds, but after much research I came across the Erektor ad. I decided to order the device in secret. To my relief she had no complaints and after using it several times, we have not been disappointed. My only complaints is that the instructions limit our love making to 30 min! It sometimes slips, so one morning, I mentioned that the size (meaning the girth size) could be a little smaller, and she took one quick look at me and said: “About an inch”! 🙂