I found the Erektor sort of randomly on the internet. I was highly skeptical at first but after prostate surgery I was ready to give it a try. Guess what, it works! There is a bit of a learning curve with my partner and some mental adjustment is required but it’s really pretty great and actually has some advantages. I had to reorder for both greater length and smaller girth which works out because I can use my first one with my pump. The customer care people are very helpful.